Executive Function & ADHD Parent Coaching

Executive function parent coaching provides you with personalized, action-based strategies to address the challenges you are having with parenting your child, teen, or young adult.

This work focuses on recognizing patterns and areas of conflict in your relationship. It looks different for every parent, as executive function strengths and weaknesses vary for every teen, college student, and young adult.

Parenting children, teens, and young adults looks different in each season of life.

Different stages can bring:

  • Joy and celebration

  • Frustration and overwhelm

  • Emotional reactivity and family conflict

  • Feelings of not knowing what to do and wanting to give up

I aim to provide supportive coaching that helps you reach your parenting goals.

“The children who need love the most will always ask for it in the most unloving ways.”

Russell A. Barkley

Does This Sound Familiar?

Many parents reach out when they are feeling unsure how to support their child in a way that actually works. They describe feeling overwhelmed while trying to support their child’s executive function skills.

Ask yourself:

  • Is my child bright but underperforming?

  • Do they melt down over homework?

  • Do they struggle with organization or forget materials?

  • Am I having a hard time stepping back and allowing them to experience failure?

  • Do mornings feel chaotic and stressful?

  • Do I feel like I’m nagging more than supporting?

  • Do they struggle to break down large assignments?

  • Does motivation only appear at the last minute?

You may also notice:

  • Difficulty completing homework assignments

  • Frequent power struggles in conversations

  • Trouble staying organized with school materials

  • Challenges in managing time effectively

  • Forgetting to turn in assignments or projects

  • Getting easily distracted during homework or chores

  • Difficulty following multi-step instructions

  • Needing constant prompting to start tasks

  • Emotional regulation challenges during daily responsibilities

Stressed or frustrated young man with executive function challenges being comforted by mother at home

What Brings Parents to Coaching

Many parents come to EF and ADHD Parent Coaching after being referred by a psychologist, psychiatrist, therapist, teacher, coach, or through word of mouth.

This coaching is designed for parents supporting a child with executive function challenges or a recent diagnosis of ADHD. I often work with one or both parents and, when appropriate, collaborate with other professionals, with a signed Release of Information.

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What Working Together Looks Like

Together, we look at what’s happening, what patterns are showing up, and where change is needed.

We focus on:

  • Reducing power struggles through emotional regulation strategies

  • Helping parents set boundaries and step back when appropriate

  • Supporting both parents and students in emotional regulation

  • Decreasing conflict within the family system

  • Helping students take ownership and build autonomy

We also explore executive function strengths and weaknesses in both the parent and the child.

Differences in EF skills can create additional challenges, especially when a parent does not understand why their child or young adult cannot approach tasks in the same way.

Part of this work involves stepping back and looking at the bigger picture:

  • What are your goals for coming to coaching?

  • What is working well?

  • What areas need improvement?

What Progress Can Look Like

You'll begin to see progress as you learn new strategies to support your child.
Building on these skills over time creates positive changes in the family dynamic.

Over time, many parents experience:

  • Decreased negative interactions

  • More effective communication

  • Greater understanding of their child’s needs

  • Increased independence and success for their child or student

Ready to Take the Next Step?

If these experiences feel familiar, parent coaching may be a helpful next step.

During a consultation, we can talk about what you and your child are experiencing and whether this type of support feels like the right fit.

"The critical issue is not whether children can’t or won’t, but what it would take to help them overcome whatever obstacle is preventing them from acquiring proficiency at tasks or completing tasks that are currently not getting done.”

Peg Dawson & Richard Guare